Family is just mean..

It’s the holidays and all I can see on my news feed everywhere is how happy everyone is with their families and I look at mine and it just sucks. My family is something I’m so ashamed of they don’t carry themselves well at all and I just feel like I’m so different from them I don’t even fit in. Every time I come home my father is just so mean to me and ever since I just got this really awesome job and I’m still in school so this is like a big win for me my dad says that one bad day and I’ll be poor and lucky to get a job at a gas station?? Like who’s father says that to their successful daughter? It’s unreal how childish and mean they all are just because I have something really really good going for me. I told him I’m excited to graduate and get a full time salary job where I work now (which has been already verbally offered to me) and that I can’t wait to buy a new car cause I desperately need one and my dad told me I need to lower my standards, like aren’t your parents supposed to encourage you to dream big , especially when your dreams all basically in reach? I don’t know my dad has just lost his mind lately with cruel things he posts on Facebook people have even told me they’ve unfriended him, how embarrassing! I just feel like everyone has a huge happy family except me :( I think next year I’ll just be happier alone on the holidays.