I wasn't raped, but my stepfather molested me a lot. Should I tell my husband? If I tell him he will probably hate my stepfather and will not hide his hate....yes, my mom didn't divorced him because of society bullshit.....sometimes me and my husband talk about stuff related and I think about that, even though I'm not lying I feel like I am because at the end I'm hiding something. Don't ask me questions I posted anonymous. Thanks for your comprehension and advice.