Pregnant because you have an easy baby?

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Do those of you trying to get pregnant/already pregnant just have really good babies or what? I'm really not trying to be rude but I just dont know if my baby is just difficult orrrr? My life is still hell (I love him so much dont get me wrong. I'm coping it's just hard. Hell might be dramatic). He wakes up all night and is grouchy and clingy all day. I havent been able to leave him for more than 3 hours since he was born because he refuses all bottles. I never get me time because on top of being a SAHM I run my own small business from home. I just cant imagine doing this pregnant or with a newborn. This child has been difficult. The pregnancy was difficult. I think the universe is telling me not to have anymore. (I have a 5 year old as well). Is your baby just better or are you just pushing through it anyway?

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I’m a FTM and my baby is 9 months old and to be honest she has been very difficult. I love her so much but She doesn’t sleep so I am so sleep deprived. During the day she just wants to be held 24/7 and I barely get any help from anyone and honestly I do NOT want any more kids I can’t see myself doing this again i may lose my sanity 😩😩😩😩😩

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I FEEL THIS!! although I wouldn’t say hell. I’d just say it’s hard. Especially on the days he won’t nap and takes 2 hours to get back down in the middle of the night.

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Lol i feel this in so many levels ! My daughter still needs like 4 to 5 naps a day to function and I feel like I barely sleep 5 hours a day and I got pregnant when she was 4 months and it was a complete surprise , breastfeeding and no period and conceived from having sex once that whole month with that all being said I’m 20w3d and I’m still absolutely excited and blessed to be having another little grumpy diva girl if that’s what the cards are dealing me #may2020

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I will say that compared to other babies I have been around my whole life, my son is pretty easy. With that said we would have tried for number 2 no matter what because it was what we wanted for our family. I am also a SAHM but he is really easy going for the most part. If I were you I wouldn't feel pressured to have another baby. I also would not to compare my son with others in terms like easyor difficult. Evey baby is different and has their own challenges.

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My LG is so easy going, she is a dream. That said, I am in no rush for another very soon! She has me running rings around myself trying to keep the house going and her entertained! 😂 I had SPD with her while pregnant, so couldnt imagine having to carry around a young baby with that for another 9 months. 
Definitley would like a few more, but I would rather wait until she is a little older and a little more independent!

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My first was extremely difficult. Got pregnant 7 months PP and my 2nd is sooooo easy. No regrets!

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Mybaby is constantly on the move and shes a good baby unless she's sleepy that's about the only time shes ill but she never sits still but I also have a 2yr old that she chases around. I'm expecting again by accident we wanted one more just not so soon. I'm excited but kinda nervous as I will have a 1yr old just turned 3 yr old and newborn all at the same time

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We will start trying in April ( want VBAC!) and for my husband his decision was based because we have an easy baby! Me, I want them to be close in age no matter how the first would have been.

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Mine breastfeeds every single hour, always has. He's a terrible sleeper too. I can rarely put him down and have never been away from him (he wont take a bottle and barely eats food yet). He's a beautiful little nightmare 😂
We are ttc. There's 7 years between him and my oldest and we want one more, but want to get these sleepless nights done in one go this time, god willing! It also took 5years to conceive him, so if it takes years again, we want a head start.

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I’m not trying yet because I want a VBAC, but my son started off super easy and is getting progressively harder because he is so clingy and emotional. My husband says he wants more but I think it’s only to appease me.

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