Do I need to tell him?

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I am planning a hook up with this guy. I don’t want to tell him that I’ve slept with 3 people. I’ve used condoms with all of them and I’ve been to the doctors. I will be seeing the doctor again soon for another std test since I slept with a guy recently. I will be providing him with my clean test results. If I do that I don’t need to tell him that I’ve slept with other people right? Or should I tell him? We are going to be casual sex buddies hopefully. I don’t feel it’s his business unless he and I are in a relationship. As long as he knows I’m clean I’m good right?

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Do you honestly think he doesn't know you've slept with other people before? I doubt that he's going into it assuming you're a virgin.

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This is actually pretty weird in my opinion. Not trying to be rude. But you definitely don’t need to tell anyone how many people you’ve had sex with if you don’t want to and you don’t need to show anyone your medical records.....and you aren’t required to go to a doctor every time you sleep with someone...I guess I understand being cautious but if you’re using condoms and being safe you should be fine more times than not. Idk just sounds like you’re doing a little too much to me.

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If ur that casual with him about sex I think it’s going to be pretty obvious to him that he’s not the first lol

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You don’t need to EVER discuss your number with anyone. It’s no ones business but yours.

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I think as long as you tell him youve been tested snd youre clean i dont think you need to tell your number. But i dont think your number is anything to be embarassed about.

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If he asks I would be honest but if he is planning on sleeping with you I’m sure he knows you have a past and your not a virgin.. 3 isn’t bad though so I wouldn’t worry

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I’m pretty sure he knows you’ve slept with other people.

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i’m not sure which one to click on because i got mixed feelings. i never went through with my fwb (due to personal issues and bad timing) but i told him i needed to know if he was sleeping with other girls while he was hooking up with me just in case i needed to get tested. we were already pretty open so we already knew how many we slept with so it wasn’t that big of an issue. as long as he was clean and the girls were too it was fine. i didn’t want to know who the girls were because it makes me personally feel uncomfortable and awkward. i was just wanting to be safe regardless

Do I need to tell him?

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