boyfriends family ADVICE??

Y’all I need your guy’s advice about my

boyfriends family, recently on New Year’s <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a> we all got fucked up drunk and had a huge fight between me and my boyfriends family. I have apologized and done the most I could to make up for it but have received NO apology back, they all continue to blame it on me and continue to tell my boyfriend we should break up. My boyfriend doesn’t wanna break up because me and him have a healthy relationship besides this conflict. I respectED his family and I like coming over to his house but now debating if I should let it go or just not come over anymore. I’m so sick and pissed over it and my boyfriend doesn’t wanna be in the middle of it but I WILL NOT have his family disrespect me and have a say in a personal relationship that they don’t see 100% of. Advice????