I can honestly say I’m in the best relationship of my life but last night I found out that he’s been smoking and drinking behind my back. I’m seven months pregnant and he said it’s been going on for about two months. Up until now I thought we had the most trusting understanding and communicated relationship. I guess I was wrong. I love him and I know he loves me so we are going to work through it. Couples therapy and individual therapy. Could really use some encouraging words please no negative he’s my man and I still love him.