Other woman’s husband hit on me

Backstory: I live with my coworker with my son and her family. She has a 14 year old and 12 year old, a husband, and a dog.

So I started living with this family after my baby daddy went to jail and I’ve been here for about 6 months. They say they look at me like a daughter and her kids say I’m the sister and my son is their nephew and all that. In the past couple months the husband has been saying things that have made me uncomfortable talking about taking showers together and how I have a great figure. He even made a comment with his kids there and me on the phone saying that his wife rather hear we’re sleeping together than I’m giving him a cigarette.

My therapist suggested I start trying to find somewhere new to live so I’ve been looking at jobs that’ll pay me better because as the assistant manager I only make 8.50 an hour but I’m also saving up to go back to California with my real family and be around my baby daddies family.

My issue today is that this morning he texted me and asked if he could tell me a secret. I replied with okay thinking it had to do with the fireball in the freezer. He basically said he really finds me attractive and my mist drives him crazing. I basically apologized because I feel like I’m disrespecting his wife and I don’t want to talk about this anymore. He’s cheated on his wife before even before they were married and she’s aware but she blames it on “stroke brain” even though he was doing this before he ever had his strokes. I’m scared she’ll kick us out and it’s not easy to get from Oklahoma to California. I don’t know if I should tell her or not...