Would you marry someone who has anger issues?

Question

Would you marry someone who has anger issues, is often depressed but that you love to death?
I love my boyfriend to death. But man, lots of struggling with him. The days I cry because of the stress I go through are endless. But the minute he kisses my forehead and tell me that I'm the love of his life. I just forget everything. I love him and I want kids with him. But I worry how his anger issues, drinking and depression will affect our future. I'm torn. And I don't know what to do. I can't see my life without him but I'm so worried. 
Ps: he is Never violent, like never 
Any experiences? Or advice?

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So to sum this up here-
Anger problems
Drinking problems 
You cry constantly
You're insanely stressed out
Yet you're thinking about marrying him? Fuck no I wouldn't marry or have kids with someone you cry over constantly, who has anger issues, and a drinking problem. I'm too damn old to stick myself with a ticking time bomb who drains my energy and emotions. Crying constantly in a relationship is for high schoolers who haven't figuire out what a healthy relationship is yet. 
Love isn't the only part of a relationship. 
If you love each other so much, then you can try dating again once he's spent a good amount of time in therapy, AA, therapy, and anger management

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Think about it this way; you say you want kids with him.. would you want your kids to feel the way you feel when he gets like that? He will only cause them a childhood full of abuse and trauma.. I’m sure he’s a wonderful man, but it sounds like he’s in desperate need of some therapy & AA.

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He’s not violent....YET. 
He’s headed in that direction. Combine anger issues with depression and alcohol and it’s domestic violence waiting to happen.

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Does not sound like this will be a happy future for the both of you or your future children unless he seeks professional help. You’re worried about your future together for a very good reason. Children also put A LOT of stress on a relationship so having kids with this guy is a recipe for disaster.

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Would you want to raise kids with a man who’s abusive? Would you want these precious little babies seeing their father constantly mad and their mother constantly crying? No, not the type of environment you want to raise kids in.

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He or you both need therapy. Counselling. Its sounds unhealthy and you sound unhappy. 
If he beats you out of anger when he drinks and then kisses you on the forehead that will not make the bruises or broken bones better.

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I found out my husband had anger issues when we were dating, they got worse when we were moved in together and married
A year later he is growing so fast and getting control of his anger. I would say this isn’t the same for everybody and I’m not sure how to tell if he will ever change.
I believe anyone can change, just some people don’t have the self esteem to do it .

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That is the number one thing I look for and have been paying immense attention to is how my boyfriend handles certain situations. He has his quirks, just like anyone else, but I absolutely would not marry someone that had anger management issues.

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Going through over all the same thing with my boyfriend I want to marry him he’s the love of my life I’m pregnant with his child but he does have a lot of anger issues & other things & I won’t marry him until these things are fixed. Therapy maybe medicine whatever it takes.

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Nope

Would you marry someone who has anger issues?

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