Would You Consider This Cheating?

Today my boyfriend randomly told me that when we first started seeing each other he kissed another girl. He said it had been bothering him a long time and he wanted to get it off his chest. I know this might not sound like a big deal but it’s the fact that we’ve been together over 2 years and he lied. We’ve talked abt things such as people we’ve kissed etc. He always told me it was 3 but including her it’s 4, lie. Another thing is he told me a while ago that when he was talking to me he was also talking to some other girls too and when I asked if they had kissed or anything he said no, lie again. I feel betrayed. To make matters worse we had sex and we had an already opened condom so I told him to put it on so it doesn’t get wasted *which he usually does anyways* so we stopped doing raw he tried to put it on, went soft and then said to me “you always fuck up sex” am I overreacting here? What do u ladies think? I want to cry😭