Advise??

Back story: I’m 18 and got married not too long ago right after high school with the aspiration to still continue my education. My husband and I decided to get married because my parents were very strict. But I had always dreamed of going away for college maybe even outside of state and ive always talked about this to family and my boyfriend and he had told me that he’d go with me anywhere I wanted.

However now that we’re married and young and receiving help from his family financially ( rent around here is $1000+ a month and with his family we only pay $200) his family said it’s not the best idea because my husband might worry more about work than school and his dreams would go out the door. Not to mention that he wants to stay in a community college and I want to go to a university so him transferring to another community college is pointless so I’m left with 2 decisions. 1) stay and not live the dreams I had planned because im going to be with him and we’ll get financial help or 2) leave and get financial help with one of my aunts out of state but have a long distance relationship.

I’m so confused on what to do ...