BFP and Pissed Husband
Just got my BFP. Should be so happy. I looked at the test before my husband and he flipped out. Started sobbing and asking why I stole that moment from him. Why would I be so selfish to not look with him etc etc. he’s been slamming doors since, refusing to talk to me and left to take our dog for a walk without saying a word. I want to jump out the window. I know lots of women don’t even test when their husband is around I never imagined it was a big deal to look. I said I was going to look and he didn’t say anything and walked into the living room to put down a laundry basket. Then saw me and flipped out.
This is not how I imagined this would go although I should have known I guess. I looked at the first positive we had with my Son first and he had no issue. I didn’t even think it was an issue. Now I feel like the hugest asshole. Thanks for listening.
Edit: Just got back from the walk and ignored me, walked upstairs to slam more doors. I want to crawl in a hole. This is horrible
Edit #2: he’s ignored me all night. When I told him I was making dinner he told me he was eating out (he didn’t, just being spiteful). Apparently I “took something from him he’ll never get back” by looking at the test before him. I’m at a loss.
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