Joyful baby day

So my baby will be born tomorrow. I had a bad relationship, and a stressful pregnancy. Well God gave me the strength to move on after 6 years of accepting someone to treat me bad. My parents are fussing about me letting my baby daddy come to hospital see baby. I told them he is still the dad and I don't want him. I don't have to be hateful. You can forgive without hate right? Well my dad made a baby on my mom and took him back and that's bad. Difference is I'm never taking my baby daddy back he didn't love me. He can see his kids tho. I told my parents we all sin nobody can judge nobody. I dislike hateful ppl. I'm back home to save up trying to move on from a toxic relationship and here I have my parents judging me. Instead of lifting me up. Thank God I have the Lord on my side