Am i overreacting?

Question

So yesterday I started bleeding. I am 6 weeks pregnant. This is my first pregnancy and I was so worried so I called my dr and she told me to come in ASAP for an ultrasound to make sure everything was okay. I was emotional thinking I’d lose my baby so I called to tell my husband who was at home that I was going in at 5 (on my way home from school) and they’d do an ultrasound to make sure things were good. Well he chose not to go with me because he was tired from work (knowing I was upset and nervous) which was fine, whatever. Turns out everything was fine and I got to see our bean for the first time and see the heart beat! So I got home and told him and showed him the ultrasound. Now he’s mad at me telling me I’m selfish because I took that from him (him not being there for the first ultrasound). And then tells me I worried for nothing and that the baby is “only 6 weeks not 6 months”. And so now I am just so upset. He says I took it from him but he chose to stay home and sleep? And then he acts like our baby isn’t a baby because I’m still early? Please give me some advice. 
Was It normal for me to worry because I was bleeding?
Should I not be this excited because I’m so early?
This really sucks.

Answer

You both need to let it go and be thankful nothing severe happened. Enjoy this moment, try not to stress.

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What kind of bullshit is that? He chose not to come (your wife is pregnant and bleeding and you’re going to...stay home and sleep? Way to have your priorities in order...) and somehow HE is mad at YOU because he didn’t get to be there? That’s nonsensical. That’s foolishness. I would want to laugh at him if he didn’t appear to be serious. I don’t understand his logic here, and if everything is ok, why can’t you be a little excited? I understand it’s still early but this appears to be a thing that is currently happening, and until you know otherwise, you should treat it as a potential baby. He needs to get his head out of his ass.

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He CHOSE to stay home. His loss. 
And no you aren't "too excited". 
They say the difference between a mother and a father is a mother becomes a mother at that 2nd line. A father comes to be a father when he feels like it's real.

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1) thank god everything is okay. 
2) when I miscarried my first pregnancy, I woke my husband up in the middle of the night. He comforted me and helped me. He went to work, rearranged patients, told his employees he was leaving as soon as I got into the doctor and supported me the entire time. The second time I miscarried, he held my hand during the entire process and supported me through the whole process. That’s what a husband does. Your husband is just an ass.

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He seems ignorant on what to expect during pregnancy.... get him a book

Am i overreacting?

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