Waking up mad

I’m so frustrated. My son wakes up mad whether it’s from sleeping 4-5 hours at night (or longer) or a 45 minute nap or a 2 hour nap. Doesn’t matter. Majority of the time he just wakes up pissed and basically unless hes fed he’s not going to chill out. Which I won’t feed him just to calm him, he only gets fed if it’s been 2.5-3 hours or so.

Admittedly I wake up not the happiest person 😬😬 so I have no idea if he just took after me in that department or if there’s anything I can do. During the day I try to distract him or make faces and noises to put him in a better mood but I do NOT have the patience in the morning to do this and just end up extremely frustrated after a while.

It’s to the point I’m actually excited to go back to work and leave him at the babysitters which makes me feel horrible. Any advice?!