I just need to rant 😩 SO SORRY FOR THE LONG POST
I just wanna start out by saying I’m sorry for the long post but last night was horrible and I just need to get it out because of how upset I am.. So last night was my husbands birthday. He went bowling with his dad brother and a friend they got drunk ( not a big deal ) I’m 37 weeks pregnant so I decided to just stay at my father in laws hour with the girlfriends of my father in law and brother in law. Well they were drinking being stupid I started having contractions at 8 pm they weren’t close enough together so I tried to troop it out. Throughout the night my father in laws girlfriend let’s call her B and my brother in laws girlfriend we will call her K. They were drinking like racehorses. B has caused a lot of issues in our family with my FIL and us. Making up stories lies etc. so K told her she was thankful she let my FIL come to thanksgiving because it must have been hard for her. She said we had no idea because she told him he isn’t allowed over to see us because of my Mother In Law. And how my MIL is a horrible person. I got up and left went outside to calm down. I was really upset they were trashing my MIL so I get back inside and K decided to bring up my husbands past ( cheating lying etc ) well I got offended and told her itsnot her place to bring it up and she said well he’s on Snapchat Showing me a video of him recording the bowling alley and sending it to people on Snapchat ( my husband and I agreed no Snapchat after the cheating thing ) so me being pregnant I ignored it not letting it get to me I’m already having contractions I feel horrible can’t breathe etc. SO B decides to text my FIL and say I’m talking about how my husbands cheating on me again and how I can’t get into his phone ( not true I just decide to not go through it ) and saying how I hope he smacks himself with a bowling ball and how this baby isn’t his just a bunch of lies. I didn’t know any of this until this morning... so about 12:15 my husband gets back to his dads and I’m crying because I’m in pain and I was just in a horrible position because I felt like I was being battered she kept offering to check my cervix and insisting I lay on her table so she can check me and how I’m not in labor how I’m faking it just being stupid. So I just told him I wanted to leave. We get home he passes out neither of us said anything on the way home. Proceed to this morning ( mind you I didn’t sleep I was in so much pain and my contractions still aren’t close enough to go to l&d. My husband tells me he wants a dna test and a divorce because I ruined his birthday I honestly laughed I was like okay whatever and he then told me everything B told his dad at this point I’m in tears so upset and I told him how it was made last night to seem like he was cheating on me because B said there were girls sending him notes from the bar asking for his number and stupid shit and he was apparently on Snapchat so I started crying and getting super upset and he assured me that never happened even offered his phone I said no because I don’t believe in snooping but if he wants a divorce that’s fine but I never said any of that. So we talked it out decided we aren’t going to have either of them in our life anymore or at least until things calm down. My father in law and B both texted and called me twice asking how I was and if everything was okay. I proceeded to text my FIL back and let him know he was no longer welcome into the delivery room because it will cause a lot of problems with his girlfriend B I immediately get a call from her I ignored it then had to block her number. My husband gets a call from his dad and my husband proceeded to tell him everything. FIL WAS PISSED and so upset THAT SHE COULDNT BE THERE WHEN THE BABY IS BORN. I have expressed multiple times I don’t want her there. As she invites her self she even said last night she can’t wait to see me in the hospital I told her no. Only my FIL AND MIL are allowed and she said well we are a package deal and I proceeded to say well then he won’t be there. I just am at a total lost I’m so upset and hurt just don’t know what to do:(
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