Just saying🤷

Let your child(ren) have privacy, have trust, & communicate with them, teach them what they are curious about or teach common sense of what they should know about instead of punishing with fire vs fire and going behind their back for them not to be able to trust you ! 🤷 let them give their voice and decisions 🤷

UNLESS there is a concern about your child and them knowing (their consent) that you are allowed to look into their phone/notebook , that's a totally different scenario. 👋