Are you ok with your husband watching porn?

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Please feel free to comment and discuss. I have another question. Does anyone feel like they need to compete with the porn stars? My fiancé just told me that seeing me walk around in shorts and stuff decreased his porn watching. That me giving him blow jobs makes him not watch porn as much but that he still does. He claims only 3 times this month. Just wanna know how you ladies feel about your man watching porn.

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I watch more porn than my husband so 🤷🏻‍♀️

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It’s been a huge thing in my marriage. It’s not okay with me but my husband goes behind my back. I feel like he’s cheating on me. I don’t know how to get over it and I’m worried it’ll become a dealbreaker in our marriage. He knew I wasn’t ok with it before we got married.

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🙄

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I feel like it’s a unhealthy habit, because it can cause comparisons in the relationship, also ruin intimacy for a lot of couples, ruins sex life, and can become very addictive for some men... I realize that a lot of men at some point have watched it, because they feel aroused and need help getting off, but a lot of men also chose not to watch porn simply because they don’t want to jeopardize their relationship, and understand how porn is a unhealthy habit, and they chose healthier habits, like actual sex with their SO. 
Something else to think about is a lot of “porn” is not accessible through snapchat, twitter and I’m sure advertised by woman on IG and other social media platforms, so that becomes a whole neither issues, and whose to say where to draw the line, after they are introducing porn into a relationship... It only gets worse from there! 
Lastly, a lot of popular porn is to do with sex trafficking, incest, beastality, abuse, choking and ect. So there is really nothing healthy and normal about it, even if there is porn that is consensual or whatever, once somebody gets addicted to porn, and get aroused by certain stuff, it’s harder to please them in bed, and they may be looking into stuff, like I mentioned before...

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Wow. You all really need to find jobs. This question haa been asked more times than i care to admit.

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I don't care whatsoever if my husband watches porn on his own, I sometimes do the same thing. Then we watch it together sometimes too. I don't feel a need to compete with the porn stars though. My hubs and I have a great sex life regardless of porn, I know he loves and values me and is attracted to me, but I also know he has eyes and is going to think some of the porn stars are attractive. I think the same thing about them. It doesn't take away from how attracted he is to me, that's just silly 🤷‍♀️
If either of us was watching porn 24/7 and our sex life started to suffer bc of it, that's when it'd be a problem. But we have an open dialogue and we communicate about things so I've literally never been concerned about it.

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Yup I watch porn myself and we watch together..... don’t see the problem at all it keeps our sex life fun and fresh with new ideas! 
Nope I don’t compete with porn stars! Our sex life is to good for imaginary girls to compare

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My husband works out of town and sometimes all we get for two weeks are video calls or pictures. Id rather him watch porn than go to strip clubs or fuck other women. Porn is not considered cheating in my relationship.

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My SO claims that they don’t watch porn. I don’t know if its tru, but like...no one can lie and say they haven’t...tbh in my POV it really just depends on the people...it’s so hard to actually place everyone in one - 4 categories

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