Help me 😭

I’m 16 years old and my vagina hole is sooo tight 😖😖 it hurts soo much when I try and put 2 fingers in , one finger if okay I have tried with lube but still hurts a lot when I try 2 ! I am really worried as when I do end up having sex or a boy fingering me im worried that it will really hurt and I won’t be able to 😖 help me please

I have also tried putting tampons in but I can’t wear them as they are too big ( even the tiny ones)!! Help 😔