Hey ladies!

So for about 8 months me and my fiancé have not been very intimate with each other😢 mainly because he just has a really low sex drive, and has been really stressed out about our financial situation and life. 😔

I on the other hand, am the complete opposite. I relieve my stress with intimacy and have a extremely high drive, I could have sex multiple times a day!😂

Sooo, with that being said it has been a hard 8 months lol. 🤦🏾‍♀️

I’ve been giving him his space by not asking him for sex or pushing him to do it because I know it’s not his fault, and in the first couple months of our “drought” I could get him to give in maybe once or twice.😁

But these last couple months I’ve kinda just let him be.

I know you define cheating with your partner and all that. But I could really use some advice.

I was thinking about buying a dildo. But I didn’t know if that was considered cheating lol🤔?

I’ve asked him what he thought about it and he didn’t really answer with a yes or a no. He just said give him a couple months and He’ll be back to his old self, but im going to be honest, Im not really sure I have a couple more months left in me.😂I figured a dildo could keep me occupied until we got our shit together and he starts feeling like himself again.

But I just don’t know lol

What do you guys think?

Ps. Sorry for this being such a long post for one little question.😬