Hello Mommies,

I’m here for a little advice! I know some will be a little harsh and I’m not worried about it at all, but I really need some advice from women who has children and has went through similar situations.

So I’m currently 37 weeks with my first baby! I’m having a girl and I’m extremely excited.

The situation

I told my child’s father that I was pregnant when I found out at 8 weeks. He replied a horrible ass response that I rather not say. He did ask me for a DNA and that has always been fine with me. Fast forward to when I was 15 weeks he finally told his mom I was pregnant; he also mentioned to her that he wasn’t sure the baby was his.. Since then she has been calling me every week to check on me. Keep in mind my child’s father doesn’t call me at all to check on my baby. Recently I made the decision to cut all ties with him due to his inconsistencies and him being inconsiderate. In all honesty it was just best for me and my baby. However, his moms continues to blow my phone up and insist on knowing what’s going on with the baby. She’s sweet to me but I feel as long as he knows she keeping track he won’t. I know she’s going back keeping him updated after I’ve express that I didn’t want him to have any dealings. I know because she’s his mother. I really want to cut her off but I really don’t know how. Any advice in the situation?