So here’s the story we met back in AIT (Army job training school) and he left to go to korea and we were friends and he had tinder. The day he left he told me he liked me and we talked sexually the entire time he was home on leave before he went to korea.

While he was on leave he asked me to be his girlfriend I said no because I wasn’t sure if I would also be sent to korea and I just really wanted to focus on graduating and my career.

So we talked for the next 5 months when we could and still talked sexually and he told me he loved me.

4ish months after he left I got orders to go to korea and I told him I would give him a chance once I got to korea but I needed closure from someone at home first. And I wanted to make sure all feelings for anyone else were gone.

Been in korea roughly a month now and this weekend I found out some stuff about him:

1. He had a girlfriend in AIT, so he cheated on her with me and by using tinder. Also while we were in ait before he knew I liked him he was trying to sleep with someone else.

2. They didn’t break up until 3 months ago, after he already asked me out. And told me he was in love with me.

3. He had sex with someone when he first got to korea after previously telling me he was waiting for me.

So he not only CHEATED on that poor girl but he also kind of disrespected me by saying he wanted me and loved me but had a girlfriend and slept with someone.

What do I do?

I thought he was a nice guy, while I was on leave I got drunk and got taken advantage of by someone who was suppose to be my friend and I ended up getting pregnant and when I told him he was very supportive. Even said he’d marry me and help me raise the baby. (Unfortunately I had a miscarriage).

He also picked me up from the airport and had been very understanding that I want to wait to have sex.