Trust

If he doesn't trust me with his phone then does he even trust me at all? I have never done anything for him to not trust me btw. I always show my phone or if he needs it or something. But his is always been an issue.

We've been together for almost 5 years, married for nearly 2.

And he has said it could take years for him to trust me with his phone ALL BECAUSE an ex in high school messed with his phone somehow idk and he lost his friends? I've forgotten the story by now.

Also don't know if it's related but I'm almost 21, he's 21.

Am I being unreasonable to just want him to be okay with me with his phone???👿