So my lo is 6 months and I love him to bits when he was about 3 months the hubby got a new job pay was slightly better but distance was much further so I wasn’t sooo pro taking it cause you factor in petrol and other stuff the increase wasn’t huge. So he’s super happy won’t he new job in terms of work atmosphere friends etc etc but he leaves home at like 645am and comes home 10pm plus, 7pm is like his earliest and latest was almost 1am. That is insane!!!! We live in Asia so there’s not much worker rights and union etc etc but seriously it’s mad. Like there’s some days he doesn’t even see his own son. And there’s others maybe he’d see him for 10 mins. And we both have a terrible relationship now he seems to think it’s ok but I hate it. He doesn’t come home and when he does he’s so tired (obviously) that he just sleeps so either he sleeps while I’m talking to him or after 5/10mins. I’ve spoke to him so many times about it but he seems to feel he’s got a huge role and he chairs some of the meetings etc but his role is nothing of a manager or anything and his pay super nominal. Oh and to top it all of he doesn’t even get overtime pay.

Maybe I just don’t understand him but I really feel like a single parent cause he only helps out in the weekends when he’s not sleeping or when he’s not watching his Netflix shows. I can’t take it I get sooo angry which also is irritating then sometimes I just cry. Don’t know what to do.