Okay so my boyfriend of one year and a few months have been going through a rough patch lately and we’re currently taking a break. I don’t know what to do anymore so here are some pros and cons.

Pros:

He’s my best friend

I feel completely comfortable with him

I love him

He has an amazing relationship with my family

Cons:

I haven’t been able to orgasm from sex in 9 months (we’ve tried lots of different things but ultimately he doesn’t last very long)

I’m not super attracted to him

Our relationship has become very dull (rarely going on dates, just hanging out at home, attraction isn’t really there)

He doesn’t make me feel beautiful or hot or sexy

Sometimes it seems like he just doesn’t want to be in my presence

His parents don’t seem to like me very much