Sex for the first time. Tips?

Question

I am getting ready to have sex with my bf of one year. We are both of consenting age (17&18) and we have been tested at Planned Parenthood. We have condoms and a place to have sex.
Do yall have any tips for virgins? How tos for condom wearing? 
thank u

Answer

First thing I have to tell you is that it’s nothing like the movies or watching a porno. There’s no fireworks most likely you will not climax because he’s clueless, it’s an awkward sweaty mess and a lot of the times, not worth the effort. You may bleed, you may not bleed, you’ll probably be sore down there. Know that most women cannot climax from penetration alone, clitoral stimulation is a must!￼. Make sure that you are wet before he goes in otherwise you could have tiny tears and you will be super sore if you’re not. Take it slow, if you start feeling pain slow it down or stop. If you feel massive pain he may be hitting your cervix, be safe, be careful,. Your best form to prevent pregnancy is to be on birth control and use condoms. Because if one fails, the other is your back up. Yes you can get pregnant from pre cum. No the pull out method is not a safe form of birth control. Yes your period can be delayed from having sex, stress, and sooo many other things can delay it. Make sure you pee after sex to clear out bacteria and avoid a urinary tract infection. Always wear cotton underwear to avoid yeast infections. Cum can cause your ph levels to be off causing yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis, etc. use lube if you aren’t wet enough, never go in dry! but make sure it’s water based like astroglide nothing that heats up or is flavored that’s an infection waiting to happen. Be verbal. Don’t fake it, to spare his ego, otherwise he will keep doing it wrong, because it worked for you the last time. Only one getting cheated is you. Say right there, a little higher, almost, that’s the spot, yessss, mmm that feels good. If it doesn’t feel good or is painful, stop. You gotta relax it just tightens up the muscles more and makes things harder for you. Sex is also psychological if you are thinking about all the things that you have to do, how can you enjoy it. Figure out what works for alone so you can show him. Men are clueless and think it’s like porn, it’s is the farthest thing from it. Make sure he pleases you and doesn’t leave you hanging. Be safe be careful take it slow.

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do it when your really ready dont feel the need to do it because you feel pressured your young plenty of time for this but whatever dont be tense relax use foreplay  and pray the condom dont break

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Drop all of your expectations. Just look at as a new experience with your partner. You don’t have to be experts at it, just do what feels right. Use lube, go slow, and enjoy yourself.

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