Mine pretty much just buys me food or smokes me out. He does let me borrow stuff like money, or his speaker or laptop. He occasionally gives me gifts. I should be grateful, right ? Lol. I feel like all that’s nice and all but my love language isn’t gifts so much as it is acts of service. And I find he can be really selfish when it comes to things like that (asked to take the trash out, or grab something from the car etc). I feel like I shouldn’t overlook it but not be too consumed with it either. I guess I’m so used to my ex of 7 years always bending over backwards for me. Not at all trying to compare but that’s the kind of love I’m used to. And he’d never ask me to pay him back either lol. So out of curiosity, what does your boyfriend do to show you he loves you?