Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years come Saturday. Since day one his youngest has been completely attached to me. I took over the complete roll of mom when him and I got together and I don’t mind it. She calls me mommy, wants to be with me all the time, gets so excited to see me, different projects in school she makes she brings home to me. I’ve always taken her to practice, school functions, talked to her teachers about her grades, etc. well her mom was in jail for quite some time for crazy shit. She swapped his youngest schools, wouldn’t let us talk to her or anything because she seen text messages in her phone to me calling me mommy, saying she loves me and im the best mommy. Now she just had a baby and it’s getting worse. She is never with her mom, we only see her on certain times because she constantly calls cps on us for literally nothing and it’s been a nonstop court battle. She got out of jail when him and I got together. He wasn’t going to let her see his youngest at all due to what she has done but decided to let her. She showered at our house, borrowed my clothes, even money and we never seen anything back. Idk how else to go about dealing with her because she just nonstop is trying to cause a problem. How do you not even spend time with your daughter and ship her off but she can’t spend time with her father and I? What else can we do, I feel lost at this point