Sex during pregnancy

Rachael

I am really struggling with this.

I am 26 weeks my husband seems to think I am some kind of gymnast despite me saying I’m uncomfortable or physically struggling to breathe.

He will always persist to go on top I am 5 foot 4 and 5 stone lighter than he is - even at this stage in my pregnancy, he is 6 foot 4.

It’s so uncomfortable that way, and I have said I can’t do this position not until after the birth and safe zone is over.

Down below for me also seems to of become way more sensitive than it was so it’ll either feel great in the right position or in situations like above, really uncomfortable and painful.

All 4s is fine, on sides is fine, if I go on top - after a while I get breathless, if he does I feel like I’m suffocating 😭 my sex drive seems to of decreased too.

Is all of this a normal thing? I don’t remember having any of it with my other pregnancies. It doesn’t help our baby boys so low down rn too n his kicks almost feel like he’s trying to bust out of my cervix!.