Do your husband’s side of the family hate you or make you feel unwelcomed?

Honestly I’ve been anything but nice if you know me in person I’m honestly such a shy /quiet person so whenever I got to meet them I was so nervous but you know I did it and I really like them you know. I just really don’t understand what they have against me that they treat me in such a terrible manner. His dad always says like random things and he’s like it’s just a joke but I know that it is not a joke. like you shouldn’t say something that you know hurts me and is a insecurity of mine and back it up by saying it’s a joke. His parents and his Sister I guess would complain that I would overdress or underdress. some days I would just wear like jeans and like a nice shirt and they would be mad because they’re in their pajamas and I’m just like well you wear whatever the fuck you want to wear. some days I’ll be wearing like just leggings and a T-shirt because you know I’m a mom and I wanna be comfortable and then they’ll be like wow why are you wearing that. I don’t know I just find it stupid and honestly like I just started not to give a damn I wear whatever I want so if I want to be extra I’m going to be fucking extra like I just don’t care because they act like they are so offended but honestly like they dress like that too but I guess it’s only bad when I do it. They expect me to dress like an old grandma. I was wearing a camo jacket the other day and they were like that’s for a teenager and I’m just like it’s just a jacket😃 it’s just like they hate me over stupid ass reasons and I wish they would just grow up because I’m not going anywhere I can’t believe I’ve been dealing with this for almost 10 years.