Just mad

My SO and I have been together for 5 years. We have a 2 year old together and I’m a stay at home mom. We’re currently looking to buy a house and while looking we disagreed on quite a few of them then proceeded to tell me “ look you can look at whatever you want but you don’t work and you’re not getting a say so in the house.”

So obviously I got pissed. I have a right to be upset right?