Birth Mothers & Adoption Support

My pregnant sister has chosen adoption for her unborn baby. I’m wanting to be supportive, but also not overstep my bounds. If you have been in the place, as the birth mother, what did your family/friends do to support you? Are there ways you wish you would have been supported better? Are there things friends/family did that offended or were too overbearing?

As a mother myself, I’m trying to put myself in her shoes and offer to her what I would want for myself.

**This is happening fast. She has pre-eclampsia and will be forced to deliver within the week (37 weeks). Up until this week she was planning to keep baby, but has since changed her mind.