I wanna share what I just read on another site. Wtf did I just read... 😖😣(this is a copy & paste btw)

IM NOT OP, this is from reddit and I needed to know what LSA thinks because y’all be dragging people left to right.

“Ok, I know that title sounds terrible, but hear me out:

I (24F) met my best friend (24F) on the first day of our freshman year of college, and we've been super close ever since. She's the platonic love of my life.

She met her boyfriend (25M) two years ago, after she and I moved to NY together. Her boyfriend's a great guy, they're super cute together, and I know they want to get married.

The thing is, she and her boyfriend are both on the "wilder" side, sexually. I know they go to group sex events as a "couple's activity," for example. Personally, I identify as bisexual, and have participated in a handful of threesomes with both men and women.

A few months ago, my friend asked me if I might be willing to participate in a threesome with her and her boyfriend. I was a little surprised at first, but it honestly didn't phase me that much – my friend and I made out a few times in college, so this wasn't a huge leap. I said I'd be down, and the "event" happened not long after that. There were no condoms involved, which in retrospect was obviously dumb, but my friend and I are both on the pill and we honestly assumed we'd have abortions if anything surprising ever happened.

Of course, I found out I was pregnant. I immediately told my friend, and she was super there for me – came over to my house, ate a bunch of ice cream, made sure I was ok, etc.

The problem came, however, when I realized I couldn't get an abortion. Obviously, I'm pro-choice, but when it came down to it the idea of terminating horrified me.

When I told her I was gonna keep the baby, my friend totally freaked out at me. She told me she couldn't believe I actually wanted to raise her boyfriend's baby, and that it was disgusting of me to want to "start a family" with the man she loves. We didn't talk to each other for a few weeks.

We slowly started talking to each other again – mostly over text, not in person – but she was definitely still mad. She told me it was going to take her a long time to be able to move past it, but that she was working on it.

Then, we got brunch together – one of our first times really hanging out since I'd told her I wasn't getting the abortion. Over the course of the meal, I asked her if she would be the baby's godmother, since she's my best friend in the world.

She absolutely freaked out. She told me that she couldn't believe I would ask something so insensitive. She told me that she "couldn't bear to be the godmother to a child who's probably going to be the bane of her existence for the rest of her life."

While I don't feel bad for deciding to keep my baby, I'm wondering if I'm TA for how I'm handling the situation.

Edit: a few people have mentioned wondering how the father/boyfriend reacted, and (while he's obviously not thrilled about the situation) he's said that he'll support whatever choice I want to make about the baby and he'll pay child support, though he doesn't want to take on a huge role in its life.

Edit 2: Another small clarification, since I realized I didn't include it originally. I don't know if this makes any difference, but my friend and I have previously spoken about being godmothers to each other's children. When I offered the role to her, it wasn't completely out of nowhere“