I'm so frustrated

I feel like my boyfriend of almost 4 years has zero interest in me. It's really taking a toll. He took today off, and in my head whenever he takes a day off work I see food and movies and snuggles and laughs. Hes just sitting on the couch, scrolling his phone, ignoring me. Is it too much to ask for him to like me? Hold me? Have sex with me? I know this is a doomed relationship, and that hurts, but I dont get why it's so hard to love me....