This happened awhile back. But looking back, its weird how things turn out.

My friend wanted a baby really bad when she was married.

She eventually cheated on her husband, with multiple men, got herpes and pregnant, but she miscarried. (She bragged to me about the cheating. Like she was proud of herself. Cheating with other married men at that.)

She divorced her husband, and got with another guy. They were together off and on. She would work, he’d stay home. Whenever he got a job, he’d leave her for another girl, he’d lose the job, come crawling back to my friend. She even paid for his divorce. I noticed the pattern when he would get a job though. He’d always leave her for someone else. it happened several times. Then she got pregnant. I was happy for her, as a friend should be. She barely came around after that though. I still came to the hospital to visit her although she never really let me see the baby, and she didn’t allow anyone to post ANY photos online. I respected that.

My husband and I had been TTC for several years. I had always, since I was 15, wanted to be a mother. (I’m 27 now) Two months after she had her baby, I posted a link on Facebook to a college I was considering looking into and tagged my mom. My friend saw it and said “you can do anything you want, I wanted to be a mommy and look at me.” The way it was typed out, she WAS rubbing it my face. Even my husband, mom, and two other people I’m friends with noticed it.

I was heartbroken she said that and I’ve talked to her about how I wanted a baby and all the money my husband and I spent on fertility supplements and doctors etc.

About 3 weeks after that, I found out I was pregnant. Lol.

She needed me to drive her to the store one day, and I had a reversible baby to be sign in my window. On the other side it said “mommy to be on board.” When I pulled into her driveway, I said hey, look at the back window.

That girl walked behind the car, looked and when she finally realized what it said, she stormed up to the car window, and snapped “it’s not as easy as it looks.” And then stormed off into the house and texted me saying she didn’t need a ride.

Later she tried to be nice and start calling herself aunt *Matilda (obviously not her real name but I want to remain anonymous lol)

She lost custody of her kid, not long ago.

She also almost lost her life to gangrene and her pos boyfriend was cheating on her behind her back in the house she paid for while she was in hospital. And after all this, she asked if I’d still be her friend if she got back with him.

I was going to say she wasn’t like this in high school but I remembered she slept with a guy I was dating senior year.