i hate labeling myself bc it’s so permanent and i don’t want to be defined by a label, however nothing can really explain how i feel like this label. I AM AROMANTIC! i am sooo aromantic it should be my middle name. I never wanted to admit it to myself bc I felt like i sounded bitter, but I don’t care anymore!! THIS IS HOW I FEEL! i love being alone! i have NEVER had a crush in my life!! i don’t desire “love” (whatever tf that even is😂) i cannot fathom the idea of being in a relationship! At this point I believe that some people are meant to be in relationships and create families, and some people (like me) are meant to stay single! And sometimes i struggle to be okay with it. It’s hard when society makes you feel like your purpose as a woman is to love and be loved and create a family. that is just not what’s in store for me! My life is MORE than having to have a relationship! i THRIVE working on my own! I am an introvert to the core. And I DON’T WANT A RELATIONSHIP!!! I actually LOVE being alone! AND I SHOULDNT BE ASHAMED!!

i just had to get this off my chest.