I don’t know how to handle this....i cant believe my husband.

I am happily married, no kids, really no complaints. Yet last night after being up for over 14 hours I got home from work and I still had 2 hours of college coursework to do and I had to eat dinner. My husband got invited to go out with our neighbors and asked if I wanted to come, and I said no and was just slightly annoyed because I was exhausted and didn’t want to do anything besides my coursework and go to bed. But I knew that if he went out, when he’s alone he doesn’t pace himself and hed get trashed and come home and I would have to deal with it. So he went out, I got my stuff done and didn’t bother to text him because I knew I’d come off annoying and didn’t want to argue. He FaceTimes me to say hi and I told him I was going to bed, and randomly mid sentence he interrupts and says “I don’t know why you’re being such a bitch” and I just hung up. I went upstairs to go to bed, and shortly after he came home. He then said something and I just casually asked why he felt the need to call me a bitch. He LOSES it and starts freaking out. I told him to go bed(in guest room) , you’re drunk and annoying.

20 minutes go by and I get up to use the BR and I saw he was still up so I asked again why the hell he felt the need to say that. I am not a yeller but I said it in a stern tone. He then again starts going in and out of why I’m the worst and how I’m no fun and how he hates that he can’t spend money like he’d like to and started going on rants about shit. He just laid it on me and I had no idea what to even say besides sit there and listen. Then when he’d stop talking, I’d go to say something and he’d just yell at me and be so rude. I’m so hurt and confused because that’s not normally how I’m treated. Lately I haven’t been fun because I have 6 more months til graduation and I work 9 hour days plus 2-3 hours or school. I have no energy currently on the weekdays! He then proceeded to rake his ring off and say he wants a divorce after all of this. I don’t know wtf happened or went wrong. I’m hurting. I don’t know if his drunk words were the truth or not, and I’m just over it and hurt about what he said. Really hurt. Now I don’t even want to call him when I’m at work cuz I’m afraid last night was how he felt. What should I do?