I CANT GET OFF..:/

i literally can’t get off....i’ve tried to masturbate (yes with my clit too) and that feels like absolutely nothing to me.. i’ve also had sex (which doesn’t really do much)...and my boyfriend fingers me all the time..wayyy more than we have sex. he literally won’t stop until i signal to him that i’ve finished but i have never actually finished in my life. after like 15 ish minutes i let him know that i have because i just feel bad at that point, because let me tell y’all he puts in WORK.. he won’t finish until ‘i do’. and him fingering me feels good but it’s not like a magical overwhelming feeling, and he’s tried all different ways, speeds, etc. but i feel like i need to act like it is...i just want to know what it feels like to have an org*sm. does anyone else relate or know how to help??

maybe sex has just been so hyped up and i’m expecting an orgasm to be super noticeable?? i don’t know.