Sex Life is dying!!!!

Bf and I are both in our early 20s. I love love loved our initial sex life. It was fun and we tried a lot of new things. But now we have sex and it is getting boring. We role play, tried bondage, even did anal etc. It’s still a routine that is getting boring. Today, he told me to get “freakier” which CONFUSED me because he is the vanilla one. We talked about sexual fantasies and I have already fulfilled most of his. I’m starting to think that we’re sexually incompatible. We have tried so many things and I mostly put in all the work. I only say that he is vanilla because his favorite position is missionary. I honestly can’t think of anything on the “how to spice up your sex life” articles that we haven’t done. Sometimes I feel like he isn’t that attracted to me anymore because he can’t even finish during sex. I’m just so angry and can’t figure out why our sex life is dying. Like right now, I don’t really want to have sex with him if he isn’t going to be satisfied or won’t finish.

Any suggestions? Like how the hell do I fix this problem?