Does masturbation bother you?

In a relationship/marriage I usually try to express upfront how masturbation bothers me & hurts my feelings for my guy to masturbate (it makes me feel as if he would rather please hisself than to wait on me & that I’m not worth the wait even if I tell him I will be willing to do it any time he would like to) I personally don’t do it while in a relationship & rarely would when I was single. However, I feel like a lot of people see it as no big deal these days & maybe I shouldn’t worry about it? I do know it says it’s a sin in the Bible so God is with me. I just need some reassurance that I’m not the only one it bothers..