MIL issues?

Question

Sorry y’all, I’m having a super rough time with my MIL...we just can’t get along, she’s possessive over my child, she’s snobby and treats me poorly, my anxiety is through the roof and I’m dreading every visit so much it makes me physically ill even thinking about it. 
Y’all have any monster-in-law stories to make me feel better?

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My MIL thinks my son is hers and she makes the rules with him. She kisses him when I'm not looking, invites people over to hold him when I'm not there, calls him her son. I'm sitting here going...

That's your son *pointing at my hubby* and he is full grown. You had your turn! 
She turns me in to the little red angry guy off inside out.

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My MIL and SIL don’t like the way I parent our almost six month old. Here’s examples: we ask that they keep their face out of his and they never listen just ignore us. Another is that I don’t want him to sleep at there house because they have three large dogs, a cat, and frequently smoke cigarettes and weed in the house. They also wanted to watch him instead of him going to daycare which I said no thank you too. They have sent countless very mean text messages about me to my husband. I get horrible anxiety now when they come around because I know they don’t like me and I also know that they won’t listen to me. My husband understandably loves his family and they do no wrong in his eyes. So this has put a pretty rough strain on us. I don’t know how to handle this anymore as it makes me upset that this is happening  I’m very quite so I’m never rude by any means and I dont feel as if I’m being unfair. They don’t know that I’ve seen the texts messages they sent so we’ve never had any confrontation. They also live ten minutes away and don’t try to visit very often there for my son doesnt know them when they do come around and gets scared by them. I get along great with his two brothers and father because they are extremely respectful of what I ask and we’re very close with them just not his mom and sister.

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My MIL is still obsessed with his other 2 kids mum. Does anything and everything for her as if they are still together yet they’ve been separated for other 5 years and was never married or even engaged! She constantly makes me feel like I’m not worthy of being in the family. She never comes to see our daughter or even asks how she’s doing knowing full well she’s having an op next week as she has a kidney issue. She messages me and asked me how the other two kids are when they are here but never actually asks how her third grandchild is!! She always plans to do stuff with the kids in half term with their mum but never comes and does anything at the weekends with all 3 kids and HER SON! 
We’ve had numerous arguments and I’m now done trying to be this daughter in law that I think she’ll like. I am me and my daughter will either have her in her life or not and if she asks me why she doesn’t see her I won’t lie to her anymore!

MIL issues?

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