Nicu mommas! Sorry if it’s not posted where it should be.

Hello! My babies were born at 32 weeks and 6 days. They were taken to the nicu immediately after birth and they’ll be starting there for a couple weeks, I’m being discharged today and I’m already overwhelmed about leaving them here. I have two boys at home who also need me.. I guess I’m just trying to ask is how did you cope and get through it? What routine worked best for you and your kids at home and husband? Did your baby end up staying the time the doctors said they would and what helped your babies progress each day..?