The frustration 🤬

My son is 2 y/o and he’s Jamaican, but he’s super light skin. ( I’m very high toned )& his dads Jamaican Born & raised. Well I have family constantly telling my son theirs no way he can be Jamaican because he’s light skin !!! I’m due to have another son anyday now & ive asked that just stop I don’t want my son confused about who he is or his heritage because some people feel he can’t be light skin an a Jamaican 🙄 I feel like keeping my kids from my own family it’s really sad & more than anything DISRESPECTFUL