Feeling alone 😡😡😡

I’ve been married for 13 years and feel alone all the time. I have told my husband that I need time with him. We need to go on date. I set things up, then there’s an excuse why we can go. We have 5 children. He says he’ll do better and then go back to the same ways. He’s a great father and husband he just lacks intimacy and affection. I do my part, and have sex when I don’t want to. This makes we feel sad, because I can never enjoy it. I am tired, just had new baby and I’m the only one taking care of baby day and night. He’s home daily, so there’s no excuse.

Has anyone else dealt with a Husband like this?

Update:

I Think am done, if it takes you 13 years to appreciate what you have that’s sick. I am tired of doing it for the kids.