WHAT SHOULD I DO??!!

Question

So I met this guy on tinder and we’re really hitting it off. He wants to meet up and possibly have sex (he’s been hinting at it) but like I’m a virgin. So for me, it’s not a big deal to have sex for the first time with a stranger cause I’ve always been the kind of person who just wants to get it over with. Like I don’t really revere to the whole waiting for someone you love kind of a thing and like I have a dildo and use that every now and then so I’m not unfamiliar with having something inside me. I’m just kind of worried about being inexperienced and embarrassing myself or not knowing how to prepare for it. Idk I guess I’m asking if anyone has any advice? Lol also I’m 21 idk if that matters 🤷‍♀️ 😂

Answer

If you want to get it over with, just do it. Keep in mind, most people always remember their first time. So if he’s really bad/if it’s awkward, that’s the memory you’re stuck with. On the bright side, if he is terrible at it, your sex life can only (hopefully) get better lol. 
My advice would be, be honest that you’re a virgin. For me I was worried about the same things (I was 20 or 21 at the time) and it was my boyfriend (now fiance) so I cared about what he thought. He also went slower/was super considerate making sure I was okay/enjoying everything. That being said, if you don’t really see this going anywhere further than hooking up, who cares what he thinks? You don’t have to tell him - guys are usually fairly easy to please in my opinion. 
Two, USE PROTECTION! Not just birth control, but 100% make sure he uses a condom and make sure he’s always used protection when hooking up in the past. 
Three, if you want to, go meet up with him IN A PUBLIC PLACE and see how your feel around him. Just bc you’re hitting it off online doesn’t mean in person you’ll feel comfortable with him. He could be a total creep or it could just be awkward. 
Lastly, tell a friend what’s up and have them be your “emergency person”. Lol so if things start to get weird or you feel uncomfortable AT ALL just text them a code word and have them get you out of there. 
Other than that just use your best judgement and do what you want (:

Answer

I agree with her, be upfront that your a virgin and he should be gentle and help you along, make sure you are clean (showered) and you use protection. Just have fun! I met my husband on tinder. Exactly one year after we matched we got married 😍 good luck!

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