Ive never had an orgasm

Okay so ive never been able to get myself to orgasm, I'm 19 and ive had a boyfriend for 4 years and he hasnt been able to either.. though I dont blame him considering im the only person hes been with and if I cant even get myself to finish then it would be stupid to assume someone else could.

Ive gotten one toy, its that bunny toy, but I guess its not intense enough because that hasnt even gotten me close. And dont get me wrong it feels good, sex does too its amazing but.. Ive just never gotten to finish. And he does try, so its not his fault.. kind of feel bad about it because he gets pretty down about it.

But anywho I just would like to get some opinions? Any tricks, toys or things that could help? Or anyone in a similar situation? Idk just anything