Husband won’t have sex

And I know why he won’t. But it’s bothering me.

It’s been 3 months. 4 months ago we were trying for a baby. And his testosterone dropped really low, and he just don’t even get turned on. I can get undressed in front of him, he can “try” and have sex but he’s numb. The doctor said the only way to fix it is to loose weight ( he gained like 100 pounds. He was all muscle but after his surgeries he had to stop the gym and a lot of the muscle went to fat ) so he’s also really insecure.

I also feel as if he’s getting distant.

He went out with his friends and I called him to check in and y’all he was having so much fun. But the next day on our date he wouldn’t even laugh..

He was being mean and angry. And I just wanted to go home.

Sometimes it makes me sad what if his dick don’t work for me but gets turned on for someone new? That make sense? I’m scared I’m never going to have kids now.. and I’m so sad. My cousin just send me her positive pregnancy test and asked me if I’ve taken one and I explained to her I don’t need them anymore we aren’t trying and I had to hold back the tears. I’m just so sad .

But I know it’s not his fault. It’s just my sex drive is perfectly fine so I just have to work around it.