What should I do 💔💔

So me and my husband have had problems but no cheating or things like that it’s just between us too.

I’ll try to make this short as possible and only explain what’s needed but of course there is a lot behind that doesn’t need to be explained.

His problem is not showing affection and not treating me like his wife in the fact that he doesn’t really talk much when his with his family (which he lives with them) he doesn’t really talk much about us when we’re alone he just watches tv. He doesn’t kiss or hug me at all all day. We don’t have that alone time. Like I feel lonely all the time, he gets mad easily, and other things but when we have talk about it he says he knows and doesn’t change because he’s annoyed by me that I’m always telling him what he’s doing wrong when he does it, whenever he makes me feel bad, I’m always asking questions like if he loves me if he likes me, if he only uses me for sex, if he would cheat etc. And he says he’s tired of that and he does things on purpose because that’s all I say and he hates things being repeated, that I talk about the same things over and over. And also most of the times we fight it’s at night because when he turn the tv off to go to sleep I start asking him stuff and he gets mad that I ask the same things like I said but specially when he’s trying to sleep.

So I tell him I repeat things because I don’t see him doing anything about our relationship and he says he doesn’t do anything because he can’t and he gets tired of me talking about that all the time and that gets him in a bad mood.

My question is what do you think I should try to do?

Keep telling him until he changes( and I do have more problems but for him that and trust is the #1, and also I’m waiting for him to change to stop )

Or should I not say any si also he can see I actually feel bad and focus on my feelings (he doesn’t now) and out relationship because he says he’s annoyed and being annoyed he can’t try anything but just a bad mood 😒