How do you lower your sex drive?

I don’t think I can keep going like this. I can’t keep begging my husband to only be rejected. I’m the only one making the first move or any move by that matter. I no longer feel desired by him anymore and it’s killing me inside. I’ve tried talking to him about this but he just brushes it off or makes me feel bad for wanting sex. I’m the type of person that can do it everyday maybe even multiple times but he never really does. I don’t want to feel this way anymore is there a way to lower it? I don’t want to feel like a monster for something that is natural. Please help.