Ugh someone help me

I am supposed to be in my cousin’s wedding April 18. I will have to fly there and back home. With all this corona virus stuff going on, I am nervous. I have no option to drive as it is a 10+ hour drive and I only have availability to be gone Friday to Sunday. My husband can’t go. My cousin doesn’t seemed concerned or like she’s going to push her wedding back. What do I do here?? I have a two year old and a 5 month old that I’m afraid of bringing something home to. 🥺