*LONG POST ALERT*

So I’m not really sure what group to post this in so I guess I’ll do this one.

So I wanna start this by saying my dad is real dick. Like he’s mean and verbally abusive and has been all my life. Once I moved out I only really came home to see my mom and my little brother and tried to avoid him. But there are also days where he is good and a nice guy so it’s hard.

Anyways!

My husband and I have only been married a few months, together for over 2 years. I was very upfront about my family and he knows how my dad can get. My husband and my dad play video games together and the other night they were playing and my husband decided to switch up on squads since my dad and his buddy wanted to do something else and these guys who needed another person in their group. So my husband hopped over to them and then all of us sudden my dad get mad at my husband. At first they’re just messaging on like PS. But it moves to texts bc my husband got off. And my husband was trying to explain to my dad why he switched it up saying it’s not big deal they just needed another person. But my dad was not having it and starting calling him names and just being a dick. And my husband is like “I apologize for upsetting you but there is no need for name calling”. My husband came and told me and I just feel so bad. Like I know it’s not my fault but that’s my dad. He married me and got stuck with this shitty FIL. The next day my brother texted me asking if we would still come around after my dad was like that. I told him we would just not for a bit. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want my husband to get sick of this.. but he’s also my dad and I can’t just cut him off. He’s really good at being manipulative too.. idk what to do. Sorry for the long post.